Attitude: a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something. Typically, one that is reflected in a person’s behavior. A way of behaving. It can also be an emotional state that’s counterproductive to our desired result. No doubt everyone has attitude. The question is, Is it a good attitude or a bad one? 

Good tude:

Here are some examples of a positive attitude: 1) changing our perspective (our perspective has a powerful influence on our life and happiness), 2) smiling and being kind to others, 3) practicing compassion, 4) not taking things personally, 5) being happy for others’ success.

Bad tude:

Some people have a bad attitude toward work, a person. Here are some examples of a bad attitude: 1) being rude to coworkers or those in authority, 2) not taking responsibility for our mistakes. People with bad attitudes are described as: aggressive, arrogant, belligerent, blunt, callous, critical, cynical, dishonest, distant, envious, guarded, hostile, indifferent, intolerant, pessimistic, prejudiced, prideful, resentful, rude, selfish, suspicious, apathetic, untrusting.

We all have attitude. The reality is, we can choose our attitude. If we find ourselves having a bad attitude, we can change it. If we have a good attitude, we can grow in it.

We all have attitude, but which will we choose? I hope we all choose a good attitude.

Just a thought,

PSS

Way too often we use our words to hurt and destroy others. Our words are powerful; they are full of death and life. We should use them to bless and encourage others, not to cause them pain. 

It spreads like wildfire:

Gossip is defined (Cambridge Dictionary) as: conversation or reports about other people’s private lives that might be unkind, disapproving, or not true. Gossip has destroyed more people, tarnished more reputations, broken more friendships, and split more churches than any sin I’m aware of. Gossip is quickly told, quickly heard, and quickly spread. Worst of all, gossip is quickly believed.

It is denied:

People will confess to stealing, lying, adultery, even murder. But no one confesses to gossip. God’s word teaches us to believe the best in people. The devil, who is a liar and slanderer, comes only to steal, kill, and destroy. He is the author of gossip and everything that causes people to be so insecure.

It is destructive:

We should not gravitate toward gossip or enjoy someone else’s demise. We don’t rejoice at injustice or someone else’s issues. We should seek to help and encourage. Death and life are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21). Let’s use our tongues and words to encourage, to help, and to restore others.

Let’s ask God to heal us and put a guard over our mouths and ears, so we won’t allow gossip to come from our mouths or get into the inmost parts of our being.

Just a thought,

PSS

Years ago, in 2011, I wrote a book called Large, Large Living in a Small, Small World. In it I purposed to teach what a generous-lifestyle heart looks like. I defined generous from the Hebrew as being of noble birth and possessing noble character. Such a person is generous in overlooking injury or insult, rising above pettiness or meanness. It’s one who indicates a willingness to give, share, or to bestow favor.

Reciprocity:

Two areas in which I believe most believers have missed God completely are: one, serving; and two, giving. It’s so sad to me that people will talk about how much they love God and are thankful to Him, but never reciprocate by giving and serving His kingdom. I guess the saying might be true, “Put your money where your mouth is!” In other words, Show us what you believe.

Obedience:

John 14:15 — “If you love me, obey my commands.” Way too many people treat the Bible, the word of God, as a book of suggestions, instead of a book of commands. John 15:14 (NLT) — “You are my friends if you do what I command.” We need to do what God commands. He commands us to give of our money. He commands us to serve.

So, the question I leave you with is this: “Do you love God, and are you thankful enough to do what He commands?”

Just a thought,

PSS

New Mexico is plagued with poverty and victim mentalities. These spirits have produced all the poverty and crime we see in our city and state. They are the dysfunctions that cause people to elect the people we have running and ruining our state. People feel entitled — they believe they deserve stuff instead of wanting to earn stuff.

Scarcity mentality:

The poverty and victim mentalities give rise to a scarcity mentality. People with this mentality believe that life has only so much — so much time, so much money, so much intelligence, so much of whatever resource they can name. So, if they give, they will have less. They may even believe in God. They believe God made the earth, but He didn’t make it big enough, and He made it with limited resources. Because of this scarcity mentality, people get deceived and start believing in the wrong things.

Abundant life:

God didn’t make the earth too small, and He definitely didn’t make it with limited resources that will run out. This scarcity mentality is a stronghold for way too many. They need to be delivered from this type of thinking. These false beliefs hinder a person’s relationship with God. We need to believe the Bible and the words of our Lord Jesus. He came to give us life and life more abundantly (John 10:10) — to give us a rich and satisfying life. The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy. Don’t allow him any longer to deceive you into believing God is not big enough.

We really do need to learn and practice generosity. If we do, it could change our whole life.

Just a thought,

PSS

Being consistent, staying consistent, is sometimes different for some. Consistency is an essential part of our lives. People who are up one day, down the next are hard to deal with. You never know what mood they will be in. Consistent people are easier to deal with, especially when their attitude is consistent. 

Principles:
Consistent means acting or done in the same way over time, especially so as to be fair or accurate, consistently adhering to the same principles. Our views and actions are consistent. Even as we serve the Lord, we must be consistent in our faith. The way we talk, the things we do must be consistent with what we believe. 

It’s work:
I believe we should all work at being consistent in our lives, that when people are around us, we are consistent in our words and actions. The thought, Do as I say, not as I do, is very inconsistent — not a healthy way to be. So, let’s strive to be more consistent in our lives — at work, around our families, even when we are alone. It will bring greater peace to our minds. 

Let’s all strive to be more Christlike in speech and deed. It will help us be more and more successful in every area of our lives. 

Just a thought,
PSS